Stop forgetting the people who matter.

HeyDunbar is the relationship intelligence layer for your brain.
Capture moments with your voice. Get nudged before connections fade.

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HeyDunbar app on iPhone showing relationship dashboard
The Problem

You have 500 contacts.
How many would answer at 2am?

Your brain can maintain ~150 meaningful relationships. Social media pushes you toward 5,000.

The result? You forget birthdays. You lose touch with old friends. You scroll through hundreds of names and feel more alone than ever.

The Solution

Relationship intelligence, not relationship management.

HeyDunbar doesn't ask you to manage your friends like sales leads. It captures context invisibly and nudges you before connections fade.

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Voice Capture

Say it, forget it. Tap the mic, capture a thought, and HeyDunbar stores it safely in your inbox for later.

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Relationship Health

Every contact has a health score that fades over time. See who needs attention at a glance.

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Gentle Nudges

Before a relationship drifts too far, HeyDunbar taps you on the shoulder. Not nagging β€” caring.

Zero Admin

Capture a thought in 5 seconds.

See something that reminds you of a friend? Just tap the mic:

"Remember to get a bottle of ChΓ’teau Mouton Rothschild, Sarah loved it at our last dinner."

HeyDunbar transcribes it, figures out who you're talking about, and saves it to their profile. No typing. No forms. Just speak.

HeyDunbar voice recording interface
Smart Onboarding

Let's find your 150.

To help you curate your Inner Circle, HeyDunbar needs to analyse your full network. We process data locally on your device.

No cloud uploads. No data mining. Just intelligent organisation of the relationships that matter most to you.

HeyDunbar onboarding - Find your 150
Rich Profiles

Everything you need to know, beautifully organised.

Each contact has a rich profile with key facts, connection narrative, and health indicators. See their birthday, what they enjoy, and when you last connected.

Quick actions let you call, message, or log an interaction with a single tap.

HeyDunbar contact profile with health ring
At a Glance

Your network, organised by meaning.

See all your people with visual tier indicators. The coloured dots show each person's tier:

  • Amber/Gold β€” Inner Circle
  • Orange β€” Close Friends
  • Pink β€” Friends
  • Purple β€” Casual

Everyone organised by how close they are to you.

HeyDunbar people list with health indicators
The Science

Built on 30 years of research.

Over the past three decades, research in anthropology and cognitive science suggests that humans have a natural limit to the number of meaningful relationships they can maintain.

For most people, that number is around 150 β€” a point where maintaining depth, context, and emotional continuity becomes harder.

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15 β€” Close Friends
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🎧 The Science of Drift
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HeyDunbar is designed around this insight, helping you stay present in the relationships that matter most.

Your relationships are your business.

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Local-First

All data stored locally on your device. We do not have access to this information.

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On Your Device

We never see your contacts, notes, or relationship data.

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No Tracking

No analytics SDKs. No ads. No data sales. Ever.

HeyDunbar is designed to support reflection and organisation β€” not to analyse, predict, or direct your relationships.

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What People Are Saying

"Finally, an app that doesn't make me feel like I'm managing a sales pipeline when I just want to remember my friends."

β€” Early Tester

"I used to feel guilty about losing touch with people. Now I actually do something about it."

β€” Beta User

"The voice capture is game-changing. I capture thoughts while driving that I'd have forgotten by the time I parked."

β€” App Store Review

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.

Free

$0 Β· forever
  • 10 contacts
  • 10 AI captures (voice & photo analysis)
  • Basic relationship health tracking
  • All core features

Designed to try Dunbar without committing.

Monthly

$9.99 / month
  • Unlimited contacts
  • Unlimited AI features
  • Full relationship health tracking
  • All core features
  • Standard support

Your relationships deserve better than a contacts app.

Download HeyDunbar free on iOS. Android coming soon.

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